Excuse me....Aren't you with here with someone?

She says:

I just recently attended a destination wedding in Jamaica. Perfect timing for a fun getaway with friends after sulking around Heartbreak City for the past few months. Was looking forward to getting my groove back....not with a local, but perhaps another single visitor? But as soon as I arrive, not only am I hit with the tropical heat and humidity, I also realize....everyone is coupled off! As I'm about to board the shuttle to the resort, I notice the words "Couples San Souci" written across the side. Great.... How am I supposed to get my groove back now?

Not only am I one of three single people on this resort, I'm also one of three Asians on the whole island! Was this to my advantage? Or was it the "no problem" Jamaican attitude I took head on? Whatever it was I was showered with attention by the men! The funny thing...they were with their significant others. What's up with that?? One night while lounging with a friend at the beach bar, she starts to chuckle. I ask, "What's so funny?" She replies, "It's hilarious to watch these guys try to sneak a look at you through the corner of their eyes while sitting right next to their women!"

I totally get the "no harm, no foul" and "you can look but you can't touch", but come on! Don't get ME wrong, I enjoyed the attention. Although I would never act on any sort of proposition and it was certainly a boost to the ego. But I wonder...."what're these guys thinking at the moment?"

He says:

Hahaaa! These guys were dreaming about the other resort they'd heard about in Jamaica...Hedonism, hahaha!

Who knows what was going on in these guy's minds?! The warm sun, the sea air...the single Asian girl...all got under their collar and distracted them from being 'focused' on their girlfriend/wife. (Hey, may be the lady was their sister or something...?! ;-) )

It's definately not cool to spend $2,000 to take your bird to a tropical island and then oggle another woman! I think I'm more discreet, but my sister moans when I get that g-l-a-z-e-d look as an stunning girl is in the vicinity.

But, I think you need to elaborate on what you were wearing wandering about the couple's resort. Did you let your jiggly bits have some freedom under your less than modest polka dot bikini? Come on, 'fess up...guys can't help themselves...what's that cliched statistic? "Men think about sex every 7 seconds!"